The best way to respond to a sexually explicit topic with your children or with an adult is to respond honestly and positively based on reality. Of course, this is also a method for responding to other topics as well. Children have a special point that they may know about a lie or an unresponsive response. Your child may know that you are ashamed to answer, or you try to refrain from asking questions. If your child asks you about physical or sexual questions, they may be thinking about this or that question heard or seen on TV by the magazine or through a discussion with their friends. If you try to curse or tell your children that they are too young to get this information or tell them that the teacher will tell at school, they can come to a conclusion and may be worried. It is good that your children are not embarrassed to ask this question to you or your partner. Many parents are embarrassed about these topics and they continue to transmit this shame to their children, making them unable to find reliable sources of information.
Parents are generally happy and proud when their children ask a lot of questions, except those questions about sexuality. Answering your child's questions about sex is very important. Parents are always concerned about what to tell their children, and often think about how to tell them how much they need to worry about what their children ask. Jobs too, which can make them confused. But in general, kids can be misunderstood, not because of too much information, but because of the limited availability of accurate information.
Whether parents speak or not talk to their children about sex, outsiders, and the world will give them enough signals about sex. Apart from television and friends, they still have their bodies as their source of inquiry and sexual desire. Sadly, because of their social stereotypes and lack of access to information, their bodies are filled with questions, and even their feelings are considered as a source of embarrassment for young people. Because of this, it takes years to fix this and to create a person's body recognition, as well as a healthy, positive thinking on the individual's body.
Before or after, you will help your child prepare for the change in their physical appearance as adults. You talk to your daughter about her monthly bleeding about her monthly bleeding and hygiene approach, so she's not surprised when she's in her first period. Many girls are afraid of physical changes in their adult life. In fact, when children are aware of their physical changes, they can better protect themselves from other abusers. But do not scare your children. Please answer your child's questions through your knowledge. You can download opportunities through the media to talk to your children about your child's sexuality, romantic relationships, values, and backgrounds.
Remember that unobtrusive discussions about sex should never stop at a child. These topics should always be discussed in the lives of each person, talk with your friend, family, partner, and doctor. Many new news updates are up-to-date and we should feel comfortable talking about sex issues and sexual health for happiness and a healthy lifestyle.
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